Long ago I said world building for paranormal romance novels is the best solution for... Control Freaks! I can say that with absolute confidence because I am a control freak. To try and convince you I'm reformed or in the process of reforming would be a work of fiction beyond any of my currently published novels.
While I may be better about actually going with the flow, wanting to be in control remains a fact of my life and personality. I've stopped fighting it.
Writing novels is one way